Open Asset Import Library* (short name: Assimp) is a portable Open Source library to import various well-known 3D model formats in a uniform manner.
The most recent version also knows how to export 3d files and is therefore suitable as a general-purpose 3D model converter.
Known 3D engines have their own Asset loaders
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GitHub - hamaluik/haxe-gltf: A Haxe library for reading (and eventually, writing) GLTF files. GitHub - luboslenco/OgexHx: OpenGEX parser for Haxe
If some unifies would be better
Work has just begun. Engine-agnostic Loader in Haxe
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